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Small Steps for Big Mental Health Changes: A Guide to Feeling Better Every Day

Updated: Dec 26, 2024


 A happy and health woman

As a mother, mental health provider, and someone who has personally navigated life’s ups and downs, I’ve learned that the key to maintaining a balanced mind and body isn’t about doing one thing perfectly—it’s about integrating small, consistent practices into our daily lives. If you're feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or just want to improve your overall mental health, here’s something that might surprise you: taking care of your mind and body go hand in hand.

In my work as a mental health professional and as a busy mom, I’ve come to understand that nutrition, regular movement, and stress management are three powerful tools that, when combined, can transform our mental well-being. The good news? You don’t need a gym membership or a full-time chef to make it work. Start small, and you’ll start seeing big changes.


The Connection Between Mind and Body

It’s no secret that how we feel emotionally affects how we feel physically—and vice versa. When we’re stressed or anxious, our bodies react by releasing stress hormones like cortisol. Over time, this can lead to fatigue, irritability, weight gain and physical symptoms like headaches or digestive issues. But here's the good news: By making mindful changes to how we eat, move, and manage stress, we can reset our bodies and our minds.

Healthy Eating for Mental Clarity

The foods we put into our bodies have a direct impact on how we feel. Think of food as the fuel that powers your mind. You wouldn’t expect your car to run on empty, and either can we.

What to do:

  • Eat nutrient-dense foods: Aim to fill your plate with whole, unprocessed foods like fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains. These foods provide essential vitamins and minerals that support brain health and can improve your mood.

  • Balance your blood sugar: Avoid the sugar rollercoaster. Instead of reaching for sugary snacks, choose options that combine protein, fiber, and healthy fats to stabilize your energy and mood throughout the day.

  • Stay hydrated: Dehydration can make you feel sluggish, irritable, and foggy. Keep a water bottle handy and don't wait until you are thirsty to drink. Thirst is a sign of dehydration. Aim to drink 2 to 3 liters each day.

Life can get hectic, so try batch cooking simple meals or prep healthy snacks on the weekend so you always have something good to eat when time is tight.

Exercise for Stress Relief and Mood Boosting

It’s well-known that exercise releases endorphins, those natural mood boosters. But exercise is also an incredible tool for reducing anxiety and helping you feel more centered and calm. Plus, the physical benefits of regular movement—like improved sleep and increased energy—help you feel more resilient to stress.

What to do:

  • Start small: You don’t need to run marathons (unless you want to!). A simple walk around the block or a 10-minute yoga session can make a huge difference in your mood.

  • Make it fun: Choose activities you actually enjoy—whether it’s dancing, hiking, or playing with your kids in the backyard. The more fun it is, the more likely you’ll stick with it.

  • Consistency is key: Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week. Break it up into shorter chunks if needed, like a quick morning walk and a stretching session in the evening.

Try scheduling exercise into your day, just like any other important appointment, this will help you stay on track. Whether it’s a morning walk or an evening stretch, making it a priority can be a game changer.

Managing Stress: Finding Calm in the Chaos

Stress is a natural part of life, but the key is in how we manage it. As a parent, balancing work, family, and everything else can feel like a never-ending to-do list. That’s why it’s crucial to take time each day to center yourself, even if just for a few minutes.

What to do:

  • Practice mindfulness: Simple breathing exercises, guided meditations, or just taking a moment to pause and focus on the present can reduce stress and help you feel more grounded.

  • Set boundaries: As a mother, saying no is tough, but it’s vital for your mental health. Learn to set healthy boundaries with your time, energy, and commitments.

  • Get outside: Nature has a calming effect. A walk in the park, even if it’s just for 10 minutes, can help clear your mind and reduce stress.

Whenever I feel overwhelmed, I take a few minutes to sit in silence and just breathe deeply. Sometimes I only last 30 seconds, but it's enough to help me focus on the present moment—my breath, the sounds around me, the feeling of my feet on the ground. It’s a small practice that can have big impact on your mental clarity.

Conclusion: Small Steps, Big Changes

Integrative mental health isn’t about striving for perfection. It’s about making small, intentional choices every day to nourish your mind and body. By eating well, moving your body, and managing stress, you can create a healthier, more balanced life. Start with one small change and gradually add more as you feel ready. Every step you take is progress, no matter how big or small you may think it is in the moment.

Remember, you are not alone on this journey. As a mother, professional, and someone who's been through my own mental health struggles, I can tell you that these changes work. They may sound simple but that doesn't always mean easy. Take a deep breath, start small, and trust that you have the power to improve your mental health, one step at a time.


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